Why is so hard to find her? I'm talking to the perfect women. A common question, "Why is it so hard to find the right person?" The answer is different for everyone. Good women are hard to find - I believe that is true. Many are already taken. Many are afraid to show themselves because there are so many male nut-jobs out there, and many are just hanging out in places where you are not looking. It may be hard to find one, but it is worth the effort. I'm at a place in life now where Ive stopped looking for a place to hang my underwear, and started to look for a place to hang my hat. I had it at one point and blew it. I think it holds me back. My expectations are higher then they should be. What I do know is that the older I get, the harder it seems to meet credible women. Ask about me, I've never been the type for floozie girls and one night stands. Alot of the misconception is all guys just want to sleep with as many girls as possible. Real men still respect women and treat them with honor. Call me old fashioned, but I'm from the mid eighties and quite possibly the last generation to view women as more than an object.
On that note the 'nice guy finishes last' statement isn't popular for no reason. It holds some merit in my experiences. Don't get me wrong, Ive been the 'bad guy' to most parents of my girlfriends. If looking at my track record, Ive only really dated 5 women in my life and all of them were innocent, suburban good girls. I'm tired of the hunt. I never really was one for the chase to begin with. Maybe I should listen to myself when I say that things that are meant to be will present themselves to you. If you let it cross your path naturally chances are its worth a shot. If anyone else out there is going through a breakup or having trouble finding 'the one', stay vigilant. Don't give up on yourself. Time is limited; emotions are short. Don't spread yourself too thin. Focus on the close relationships you have now. These are the folks who'll stand by your side no matter what. You'll have plenty of time in the coming future to make a new chapter. Remember, Sometimes being solo is wiser than being in a false relationship.